But hooking up with other spicy singles need not be limited to traditional dating venues.
In fact, it can be equally mischievous to connect with someone in an everyday environment -- food shopping, wine tasting, frolicking at a dog park. Your pressure-free surroundings provide a natural conversation topic to begin interacting. Regularity is the secret here: the more you bump into each other, the most comfortable you'll become. Make sure to frequent places that best reflect your quirky interests.
What's more alluring than soft bed sheets, a clean bathroom, and fluffy towels? Department store linen departments are one of the sassiest places for neat freaks to meet likeminded clean-conscious singles. It's probably safe to assume that if a hottie guy or girl cares about guest towels, they're likely feel good about asking you over and making you feel at home.
From poetry to porn, fiction to sex addiction, what can't you say about yourself by browsing in a particular section of a bookstore or library? Many of today's book superstores also provide coffee shops, comfy seating, and air conditioning, so take your time and read between the lines of other shoppers. (And if you do hook up, be sure to steal a quick glance at their home bookshelf for clues to their dating style -- Ed)
Frequently and mistakenly dreaded by the dateless, nuptial events rank right up there with other pickup hot spots. Romance is in the air, all are dressed to the nines, there's vino and dancing to be relished, and you already know everyone at the event by mere association. So usher in your enticing side and say 'I do' to those roomfuls of potential dates.
Are you a tofu stir-fry kind of guy or a flank steak girl, a Rice Krispie square baker or a fresh parmesan grater? Shopping carts weren't constructed of wire mesh without purpose -- they're ideal for snooping. Visit your grocer on the same day every week, giving yourself plenty of time to squeeze the melons, smell the strawberries and flirt your pants off with likeminded foodies.