The general sentiment is that you should have an adult living space and avoid extremes (the cliche bachelor pad with milk crates, the woman with 17 pillows) is quite correct...but the rest of the article is absurd...by the time a woman sees my bedroom, she likes me and having a hamper in the corner makes zero difference...so, if you are heading out to buy two even candles, two poetry books and art you hate...forget it...

Focus on surroundings that reflect who you are...I have a Jackson Pollock on one wall, an original Aussie aboriginal piece on the other and a 6ft cardboard Quagmire in one corner...every woman who as seen it laughs and thinks it's cute...just be yourself...if two candles is going to make the difference, it's the wrong woman anyway.

Posted on 12/8/08 3:05 AM.

WHat ever Alex
In the end we all do OUR OWN Thing.. WE just need to not try so hard and relax.. Having a picture of a couple on your wall doesnt hurt either .. I have heard stories .. and in the end .. What kind of picture u have on the wall that make a difference .. We all want good Positive Energy...... BLondie

Posted on 12/14/08 4:29 AM.