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There's no secret to giving a great head whether it be male or female. It's about communicating with your partner. There's no "one size fits all" when it comes to giving good head, or banging or anything else. To think otherwise is ludicrous. The first and foremost key to good sex is always communication. Slow down, speed up, softer, harder, move left, right, etc. this is what's important. People aren't psychic. And everyone has different needs and wants. even with regular lovers things need to be changed up now and then. Forget the porn ideal of a good BJ, and simply ask your partner what's good for them. In the dozens of BJ's I've had over the years I can say unequivocally there was only ever one girl who ever gave me amazing head out of the gate. Every single one of the other ones need some coaching. And it wasn't that the one girl had any great secrets no one else possesed. We simply clicked in bed from the get go, which is a rarity. So, anyone else shouldn't take it as an assault on ego, but a learning experience.
Whilst I've never seen myself as the greatest lay, or having the hugest cock, - though I've had no complaints - I've always prided myself on the ability to give a woman good head. And I've had more than my share of compliments in that specific regard. However, there have been some women with different tastes and ideals for which I've had to adjust. I never saw this as a failing in myself, simply that they require something a little different. And when I modified it to suit thier tastes, everyone was happy.
So talk to your lover. I've never been a person for talking during sex, beyond the instructional, as mentioned above, and I've always found it works wonders.
Posted on 2/20/09 2:20 AM.
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